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With Dwin the Stoic's MOB Tour, Love Is Not Playing Hard to Get

In this piece, Shade Mary-Ann recounts the experience of attending Dwin the Stoic's Master of Ballads tour stop in Abuja. She captures the atmosphere of the show and the storytelling-driven world the artist has built around his music. Shade Mary-Ann is a writer, culture enthusiast, and certified music over-analyser. She believes in songs that linger, and that music can get you through a bad day and make a good day better.

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Returning to Abuja for the second time since his Love Lane tour, Dwin, The Stoic, kicked off the first leg of his Master of Ballads tour, built around his 2024 album that set many hearts in motion. Across the 10-track list, listeners journey through a love story, the weight of human longing, and what happens when feelings lead us from fight to flight.

For many who have seen him perform live, Dwin’s music has often been described as “home”, where words and the quiet softness of music come together to paint a picture of something raw, intimate, and nostalgic.

Perhaps it is in understanding the weight of this responsibility and calling that Dwin takes the experience of his listeners personally. It is evident in the way he has built a space where they can sit with their emotions, the way he writes to them, speaks to them, sings to them, and, most recently, brings that care into his live shows.

After a long wait, Stoics in Abuja gather at the Decency Event Centre on December 5th, 2025, to watch Dwin, the Master of Ballads, perform.

What stands out as the show begins is that, unlike most traditional concerts, where an artist is introduced by an MC, takes the mic, and launches straight into the performance, the MOB tour ushers the audience in through immersive storytelling. There is no MC on stage or small talk; instead, the audience is pulled into a live reenactment of the MOB album.

All is dark, still. Then projected onto a large screen, the audience witnesses an interplay between Stella Damasus, veteran Nollywood actress, who talks about the music to come, and Dwin, The Stoic, who unfolds the story of the Master of Ballads and his muse (his lover).

Without saying a word, it feels as though the version of him on screen is saying, “Take a seat, you are welcome to the show, honey…”

Dwin, The Stoic on screen. Photo: Shade Mary-Ann Olaoye

For the next few hours, the performances are punctuated by on-screen interludes featuring Dwin, The Stoic, who tells the heartbreaking story of the love between the Master of Ballads and his muse — how it blossomed and came to an end. When he takes the stage to perform, he seizes the narration, teases the crowd, and serenades them.

When asked why he replaced the traditional concert style with a narrative-led performance, he traces us back to the MOB album and how it was made to tell a story.

“I know it’s not a typical thing to do, but the tour presented a chance to do so, and I wanted to give my fans something to hold onto,” he reveals. He adds that he wants to create more productions like this, giving Nigerians experience shows with a cohesive storytelling approach.

But bringing something this unique and experimental to life is no small feat. Dwin admits that it comes with the risks of trying something new and isn’t exactly worried about how the world will receive it.

“It’s almost like I have gathered people who like what I like. I like the tour I’m building, I think they will like it,” Dwin replies, saying he brings the grand ideas and finds a version that works at this time. “If I like it, they will like it – at least some of them will,” he adds with a chuckle. And that is evident not just in the turnout for the tour, but also in the reviews, reels afterwards, and fans screaming, “this is how you do a show!”mid-performance. Like Dwin, Stoics are not afraid to wear their hearts on their sleeves.

Aside from Abuja, the tour moved to Lagos, where, for the second time in a row, Dwin, The Stoic, sold out the Muson Centre. Still armed with the narrative-led performance, he tweaks the experience with a different set list – a deliberate decision on his part.

“I think for each city, I want to give a unique experience so fans in every city get to say, ‘oh, we had this live at our show.”

As an artist who loves to be in front of his people and describes it as “the favourite part of doing this work”, Dwin wears many hats. Even when the lights go off, he is also a businessman who founded the label, St Claire Records. Despite it all, he holds space for the weight his music carries.

“This work is heavy, but through it all, I have been able to build a team, and whatever the cost is, I guess it is just part of the thing we do,” he says.

Dwin, The Stoic, between sets at the MOB tour, Abuja. Photo: Shade Mary-Ann Olaoye

After the Lagos show, Dwin is already looking ahead to other cities, from Port Harcourt and Enugu at home to Nairobi, Kampala, Accra and Cotonou across Africa.

Ultimately, his hope for the MOB tour and era is that people will have a renewed appreciation for his music.

“The one thing I want people to hold onto is that the music is beautiful and that it can do things for them. I hope they always remember that.”

Dwin, The Stoic exiting the stage. Photo: Shade Mary-Ann Olaoye

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